Monday, May 18, 2009

"I MISS KATIE"

Life is a precious gift. The moments we share together in laughter and sharing shape who we are as people. A reminder from Katie that we are always to make right choices. Making the right choices encourages us to better living and better relationships. A relationship that was strong was that of Katie and Brent, sister and brother.

There is still uncertainty in the air as Brent preps for the big surgery ahead this week. The medical team trying to organize and get a surgery date confirmed. Brently is receiving excellent care from the ICU staff and is in good hands. Once again the biggest concern is the blood pressure as the medical team would like to see it come lower. Ms. Fournier brought a sign for him today that says,"Parking only for Manchester United fans"- that should help bring down the pressure.

Some remarkable experiences shared today in the ICU 'penthouse' where Brent is living at the moment. When Scot was with a sleeping Brently this afternoon, suddenly Brent jolted awake. He somehow communicated to his Dad that he had a nightmare about the accident. Later on, Scot and Carolyn (Cary) were with Brent reminiscing about camping - one of their responsibilities was to bring the mennonite farmer's sausage. Sounds like they have great food at their campouts. They noticed that Brent was tearing up and crying. Communication is still somewhat a barrier, but it was clear to them what Brent was saying. 'Little man' of courage said, "I miss Katie."

Mom and Dad went on to share that they had Katie's memorial service on dvd for him and when he was ready he could watch the service. They also shared some other details of what happened with Katie. Brent was asked if he wanted pictures of Katie up on the wall and he answered, "yes." Brent understands fully that Katie is in a better place. While he's dealing with his injuries he's also grieving the loss of his sister. This is alot to handle for someone who is almost fifteen. Remarkably, this experience brought some healing to Brent, Scot and Carolyn (Cary). Yes, we all miss Katie.

Pray for:
  • physical and emotional healing for Brent
  • the nightmares that Brent is having to stop
  • wisdom for the Regina General medical team
  • wisdom, strength and encouragment for Scot and Carolyn (Cary)
  • the upcoming surgery - that all will go well
  • healing for the aorta

Thank you for your support and prayers.

Keep hoping.Keep loving.Keep praying.

13 comments:

  1. Brent, little man we love you and pray that you won't have anymore bad dreams!
    Scot & Caroyln, we think of you during these wee hours of the morning!
    Stay strong!
    We will continue to follow this blog to see how Brent is doing...our hearts are so heavy thinking about all that you are going through!
    All our Love,
    Brent & Tammy Klassen
    x0x0x0x0

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  2. Thank you for this update. We wait all day for it.
    Our thoughts and prayers continue for you all. May Brent rest assured that Katie is in the hands of her heavenly Father.
    We will continue to journey with you and pray for the medical team's wisdom and Brent's full recovery.

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  3. Brent you have gone through so much and you still keep going - you are my inspiration bud. It's okay to miss Katie. We always talk about things we did with Katie or what she would be saying in a particular situation; sometimes we cry cause it's too hard to understand. She was a precious sister and friend - even if she did drive us all crazy sometimes!! Our emotions are a gift from God and there's a reason we have them all. Don't be afraid to cry or laugh or just remember the normal days with Katie. Just remember that you WILL get to see her again - that's the awesome part.

    We can't wait to see you each week - you keep us going! Catch you soon:)

    Uncle Tias, Auntie Jan, Reid & Kiersten

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  4. hey brent! keep strong bud! we all love you and miss you. we all miss katie too. but we know that she is happy because she is in the arms of jesus. remember that you are going to make it through this! love you and want you back here soon!
    kiersten

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  5. I understan Katie and you had a special bond and if anything she would be cheering you on to fight, get better quick....She will always be in your heart and you have great memories with her. God blessed you with a great sister, may you get stronger each day.
    when tears of sadness fill your eyes may the memories of all the fun you had turn your tears to joy and love. Remember she is with Jesus and ultimately the best place to be....but we want you to get better and continue whatever God has planned for you right here with your parents and friends. We love you soo much Brent. I am passing your name and story to so many people around the world because we have a BIG God who cares about you and so do his people...I hope you have and I am pretty sure you have been feeling the prayers and love that have been going up for you. You are an inspiration, an incredible young man. We hope to celebrate with you and your family soon...when you get to come home to Saskatoon. love and prayers.
    Sandy - Warman.

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  6. We continue to uphold you all in prayer.

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  7. Hey Brent,

    I'm so glad we had the chance to see you the other day. Please know that you have so many people behind you praying for you and your mom and dad.

    You are missed.

    Karin S.

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  8. Hey Brent i hope you get better really fast, your friend Brantford Dueker

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  9. Brent we continue to pray for you in these tough times. God is a God of wonders and can do anything. We are believing in that for you. We are praying hard for you, your mom and dad, and the rest of the family.
    Jake And Natasha

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  10. very hard to read this... not all of us have daily reminders of katie, but Brent, and of course scot and cary will. very difficult to deal with those emotions over and over again. my heard aches and my eyes are tired, i can't imagine, or should i say "i can only imagine"....

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  11. Hey Brent,

    You have to get better fast you are greatly missed.It's alright to miss Katie we all do, and honestly i truely can only imagine what you and your family are going through.All of the ups and downs, just remember that you have friends who are going through this with you and we will continue to stand by and support you.It's just not the same at Tommy Douglas without you.so get better and I hope to hear good news and you soon.

    Kelsey Begg

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  12. As a parent, my heart aches whenever I read the updates about Brent. I pray today for wisdom and skill for the doctors; comfort, peace and strength for Scot and Cary; healing and physical comfort for Brent; and above all that God's name be glorified.

    As Christians, we claim the promise of God to his people in Jeremiah 31:3-4 - "I have loved you with an everlasting love; I have drawn you with loving-kindness. I will build you up again and you will be rebuilt. Again you will ake up your tambourines and go out to dance with the joyful."

    - From Winnipeg

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  13. Happy b-bay Brent YOUR FRIEND BRANTFORD

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